Women are hard-wired to feel emotions. We are pretty good at it, right? Unfortunately as human beings we developed this unhealthy habit of turning our strengths into weapons against ourselves. This isn’t just the truth for women, but for humanity at large. If you think about it, we are so powerful. We have such an incredible ability to memorize things and such a powerful brain, that helps us imagine things that have not yet been seen or done yet. That’s essentially how we can learn from the past, to improve our present and then create our future.
What most people do though, is to use this power in an unpleasant way. We constantly think of our past and replay the things that happened for us in the present. Therefore we actually experience negative events over and over again. Because we are so busy replaying the past, we have no room for learning from the past. No wonder we can’t heal and grow, right?
Become friends with your emotions
Simultaneously we throw conclusions around that project past experiences onto our future. We think that because we had negative outcomes in the past, we therefore will always (thats the trigger word here) find ourselves in the same situation over and over again. And we already feel the same damn things over and over again.
The thing is: it will continue like that.
Because we set ourselves up to re-live our past over and over again. In fact thats all we do in the present anyways. So how should the future ever look differently?
In some way this is so obvious, that we are blind to see it. Some people might get the concept and understand it, but the still sabotage themselves. Why? Because it’s what we learn. It’s how we are conditioned to be. It’s our autopilot programming, that keeps us stuck in these patterns. Even though it might not feel good and might not bring the outcome, we wish for, it still feels familiar. It feels comfortable in a strange kind of way.
Can you relate to that?
I certainly can! It’s what kept me stuck in anorexia for over 10 years until I finally realized, that I have the power within me to use my memory and my imagination differently. All it takes is a decision and a commitment to act on it every day. Then I started to be grateful for the lessons of the past. I realized, that I don’t have to relive my past if I learn and grow from it.
In fact: the moment you learn from your past, it is technically IMPOSSIBLE to experience negative events like that ever again, because you vibe on a new level. Your energy is elevated. You don’t match the frequency of suffering anymore.
Every time I took a negative event from my past and looked for the lesson within it, I unleashed a power within me. In these moments my energetic state shifted to the next level. At some point I almost felt like being in a computer game, where I enter the next level and the next level and the next level by simply learning my lesson. Once you do that with all of the lessons, you vibrate in a powerful way, that allows you to share your magic to the world. Actually, most people only ever see their magic, after they dig through their past.
That’s when the magic happens. It all starts with you.
Step in Your Magic.
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